I can’t wait to be a twenty-something out lesbian with pretty minimalist tattoos and a girlfriend
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Do you ever look at a girl and you’re just like “agdygwfshejdgfwvahdg!!!” inside
Bisexuality: When straight people think you’re gay and gay people think you’re straight.
Me: Mom, can I have some friends sleep over
Mom: Okay, but no boys!!
Me: #GrowingUpGay
you dont go gay or bi or trans to hell, the expression is you go “straight to hell”
WAKE UP PEOPLE
my favourite thing is when people remember little things I told them. like seriously? you actually listened to me thank you
When you’re arguing with your girlfriend
Me: “I swear to God I’m gonna grow my nails out!!”
Her: *gasps* “You wouldn’t dare!”
My therapist suggested replacing “is there anything I can do” with “what do you need” when comforting someone as the first kind of assumes you as part of the equation in helping someone which isn’t always helpful. It also kind of pressures the person suffering to kind of come up with something FOR you to do. Like I get so frustrated with that first question as a person who gets it a lot.
The second not only takes the pressure off but also might help the person really consider what their actual needs are like hey I haven’t eaten, maybe that’s a reason I feel crappy. It kinda takes the asker out of the immediate picture so the person struggling can focus on what they actually need, and then if you CAN help, you can offer it.
We’ll see if this works better!